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WORD presents GOODBYE, SWEET GIRL with Kelly Sundberg in conversation with Hillary Brenhouse

    06/06/2018 - 7:30pm

    Kelly Sundberg joins us at WORD Brooklyn for a poignant discussion of her brave and beautiful memoir Goodbye, Sweet Girl with Guernica editor-in-chief Hillary Brenhouse. Written with the raw honesty and devastating openness of The Glass Castle and The Liar’s Club, Sundberg chronicles how her marriage devolved from a love story into a shocking tale of abuse—examining the tenderness and violence entwined in the relationship, why she endured years of physical and emotional pain, and how she eventually broke free. 

    About the book

    "You made me hit you in the face," he said mournfully. "Now everyone is going to know." "I know," I said. "I’m sorry."

    Kelly Sundberg’s husband, Caleb, was a funny, warm, supportive man and a wonderful father to their little boy Reed. He was also vengeful and violent. But Sundberg did not know that when she fell in love, and for years told herself he would get better. It took a decade for her to ultimately accept that the partnership she desired could not work with such a broken man. In her remarkable book, she offers an intimate record of the joys and terrors that accompanied her long, difficult awakening, and presents a haunting, heartbreaking glimpse into why women remain too long in dangerous relationships.

    To understand herself and her violent marriage, Sundberg looks to her childhood in Salmon, a small, isolated mountain community known as the most redneck town in Idaho. Like her marriage, Salmon is a place of deep contradictions, where Mormon ranchers and hippie back-to-landers live side-by-side; a place of magical beauty riven by secret brutality; a place that takes pride in its individualism and rugged self-sufficiency, yet is beholden to church and communal standards at all costs.

    Mesmerizing and poetic, Goodbye, Sweet Girl is a harrowing, cautionary, and ultimately redemptive tale that brilliantly illuminates one woman’s transformation as she gradually rejects the painful reality of her violent life at the hands of the man who is supposed to cherish her, begins to accept responsibility for herself, and learns to believe that she deserves better.

    About the author

    Kelly Sundberg’s essays have appeared in GuernicaGulf CoastThe RumpusDenver QuarterlySlice, and others. Her essay “It Will Look Like a Sunset” was selected for inclusion in The Best American Essays 2015, and other essays have been listed as notables in the same series. She has a PhD in creative nonfiction from Ohio University and has been the recipient of fellowships or grants from Vermont Studio Center, A Room of Her Own Foundation, Dickinson House, and the National Endowment for the Arts.

    About the in-conversation partner

    Hillary Brenhouse is a Montreal-born writer focused on women, religion and culture, and alternative living arrangements. She is also the co-editor-in-chief of Guernica, a magazine of global art and politics. She's published in The New Yorker online, The Oxford AmericanTIME, and the New York Times, among others.

     

    Please note there is a $5 entrance voucher for this event which can be purchased online or at the door. The voucher is good towards anything in store at WORD, including Goodbye, Sweet Girl. Please note that if you purchase the book directly from WORD at the event or via pre-order there is no need to purchase a voucher for admission. 

    Goodbye, Sweet Girl: A Story of Domestic Violence and Survival Cover Image
    $26.99
    ISBN: 9780062497673
    Availability: In stock at Brooklyn or Jersey City -- click for more details
    Published: Harper - June 5th, 2018

    “It is a hell of a thing to write about brutality and suffering with strength, grace, generosity and beauty. That’s precisely what Kelly Sundberg has done in her gripping memoir about marriage and domestic violence. Sundberg’s honesty is astonishing, how she laid so much of herself bare, how she did not demonize a man who deserves to be demonized.


    $5.00
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    $5 admission to see Kelly Sundberg at 7:30 p.m. on June 6, 2018 at WORD Bookstores in Brooklyn. Your $5 voucher can be used towards anything in store, including Goodbye, Sweet Girl.